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Ready to Potty Train?

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There is no perfect age to start potty-training; every child is different and will show signs of readiness at varying times. The ability to control the muscles of the back and bladder are major prerequisites for potty-training. These muscles mature between 18 and 36 months of age, so it is generally recommended to start potty training after the age of two.

SUGGESTED TIPS:

  • Show your child how the toilet works.

  • Teach him to sit as if he were a normal chair.

  • Dress your child in clothes that can be easily removed.

  • Do not force him to stay on the potty longer than he wants to stay.

  • Purchase a child seat to place on top of the toilet, or buy a potty chair of suitable size for your child.

  • If your child is using a regular sized toilet, provide a bench for your child to place his/her feet upon.

  • Try to have toys or books in the bathroom.

  • Accompany your child until he/she asks otherwise.

It is common for children who have already mastered using the potty to sometimes display regression. Often it is because they develop certain fears like being sucked in while sitting on the toilet, or fear and confusion over believing that bowel movements are a part of their body.

Use regular reminders to use the potty. Praise your child’s efforts and successes. When there is an accident, gently remind him/her that the toilet is for going potty. Promptly change clothes and do not comment much about the accident. Reacting negatively may make them less willing to try again.

Potty training requires time and patience, and is a giant leap toward independence for your child.